What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a caring touch filled with attention and presence, without a standard form and established result. Tantra massage is given from the heart. In a tantric massage, the whole body participates and erogenous zones can likewise be touched. Obviously, always with respect for (shared) borders. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy also gets attention. A tantra massage happens on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection in between massage provider and receiver. Psychologically, physically, at heart level and in some cases even at the depths of heart and soul. The purpose of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the direction of) a natural, happy state of being. The effect is typically a wonderful physical, psychological wellness. Generally, the receiver is extremely relaxed, incredibly streaming and ending up well in the heart, and in higher spheres.
Tantric Massage is all about Caring touch
Tantra massage is given from the heart. The majority of touch will take location through the hands (or body to body) it is in fact love that touches. The recipient is also present, and gets active and also feels (eventually) from the heart.
Complete of attention and presence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch complete of attention and presence. Don't look around or being hectic with something else, no, your complete attention is on giving or getting the massage. Tantra massage is not about regular, set patterns are really out of the concern.
A tantric massage isn't about a predetermined outcome
A tantric massage will constantly be various. You never understand how it will end up. It is not the technique or the preferred series of massaging that is necessary, it's about exactly what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most need at the minute? What benefits her/him? Love knows exactly what to do, enjoy always has a suitable action. And so the massage will be exactly that exactly what is required. Enough is that the giver exists and keeps tuning into his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine also has its own strategy, you cannot "do" it.
Tantric massages for that reason frequently take a really unexpected course. A tantric massage does not constantly have to be "great", ending in happiness.
The best ways to get the finest from your tantric massage
Always with respect to limits
We knew it for a long time, of course, but because the #MeToo revelations, some things have actually come up in the world of tantra massage. Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage.
Set clear limits in advance
It is a misunderstanding that a tantric massage should constantly be naked, rubbish. With clothes on is also entirely okay (however hard to work with oil then). Personally, we have given/received lots of tantric massages just on the head.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let flow easily
Triggering and releasing the circulation of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy likewise gets attention. In a tantric massage, the entire body gets involved and erotic zones can likewise be touched. Naturally, constantly with respect for (mutual) boundaries. When activating life energy, sexual energy plays an essential role once again. In tantra massage we have fun with the activation of fundamental/ sexual/ emotional/ enthusiastic/ love/ development/ intuitive energy.
Concentrated on the natural happy state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage is part of "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a really practical, body-oriented movement, a vision of life aimed at growing in love and consciousness. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is one of them.
Normally leading to a terrific physical, psychological wellness
Tantra assists you to end up being more unwinded, more dynamic, more energetic, more loving and so much more. Actually, you "find out" to enjoy yourself, your body, your (sexual) energy and life itself. This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. Due to the fact that this is precisely what takes place typically: the recipient is enjoying it! Taking pleasure in is totally enabled! A tantra massage is normally nice, sometimes scrumptious. We, therefore, welcome you to totally delight in receiving ánd offering a tantric massage. Feel, use your senses. Hear, smell, taste, feel and reveal that you like it. Let your body speak!
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are lots of types of massage. Naturally, all massages have specific practices and strategies in common. Yet there is a huge difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (targeted at relaxation).
* Sports massage (focused on the muscles).
* Sensual massage (focused on pleasure fulfillment).
* (Body) therapy (focused on recovery).
Not Therapy
Well because you are really very energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT an erotic massage either. It's a kind of fashion these days to see tantra massage as a treatment, however therapy is an occupation apart.
The essentials of tantric massage.
For a comprehensive explanation, see the article on the fundamentals of tantric massage. In summary, the following basics stick out:
Tantra massage ideas-- before you begin
* Develop a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done quickly on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Provide excellent conditions (physically, but likewise mentally).
* Explain agreements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage pointers-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Constantly keep your attention on the massage.
* Make sure your massage is need free, don't push or require anything.
* Open your own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Trigger (sexual) energy and distribute it throughout the whole body.
* Do not only utilize your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Occasionally ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Take pleasure in!
* Use your senses.
* Provide feedback (enjoyment noises?).
* Integrate in combination (rest) moments.
Demand complimentary.
A tantra massage is not a work task, so as a provider you can also enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Once again, don't try to impose anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! You might not be waiting for an emotional cry, however a tantric massage has no objective.
Tantra massage suggestions-- after the massage.
* Take sufficient time to procedure, to let the massage settle.
* Require time to exchange your experiences.
* Realize that a this response tantric massage can have an effect for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not immediately go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 crucial tantra massage ideas (insights/rules).
* Don't work towards an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a pleased ending massage? Yes it can be, it usually is but there is no pressure for you to carry out, this has to do with letting that energy circulation.
* Regard boundaries, set clear limits in advance. Our masseuses are mainly really open minded - they are naturally since of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the wishes of the recipient in mind, obviously. Nevertheless, know that it can end up differently.
* It is always an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Energize the entire body. Being excited is regular and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are very crucial! A lot can come up.
* Look out to restored freezing minutes. Avoid limits from being crossed once again.
* Action by action ending up being freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Beware: no sex! Practice makes ideal. Taking pleasure in the restored balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Offer feedback (e.g. enjoyment sounds) and provide combination minutes (simply not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage happen?
Do not release, but recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we mean do not rush to the climatic ending, hold it, remain in the moment, let that sexual energy build and flood your entire body.
Possible effects of tantric massage.
Provides peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. During/after the massage it becomes peaceful in your head (sometimes totally empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of splendidly streaming life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a possible recovery result. Even though tantra massage is not the exact same as healing, this release might recover some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You become more loving, you learn exactly what it resembles to enjoy yourself. You experience that whatever, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. Which provides an incredibly liberating and deeply satisfied feeling.
Is enjoying.
You will feel comfy in your body. The mix of relaxation and a lot of energy suggests that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
In brief, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Filled with attention and presence.
* The entire body takes part.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without standard form, without predefined outcome.
* With regard to (shared) boundaries.
* Develops a (heart) connection between the giver and receiver.
* Concentrated on the natural, overjoyed state of being of the recipient.
* Typically leading to a fantastic physical, psychological wellness (of both).